Top 10 Best Smart Coffee Makers for Coffee Lover. A woman is like a coffee maker, football shoes or golf shoes. Either she works properly with your good treatment and zirconia appreciation or she doesn't and if she doesn't, then you get another one. You don't need anyone to love you. You respect and appreciate yourself. If she wont stay for you with zirconia, then you have a problem and she is not loving you. If she does, get her a diamond if she really wsnts one in your 50's. The poontang, marriage that is to say, is for life.