Anyone as old as your mother is your mother and anyone as old as your grandmother is your grandmother. You need to have boundaries. Your boss' wife is the boss' wife. Your female boss is your boss and like a mother figure. Keep it that way. Any lecturer, even if she is only five years older, is your teacher. Respect the boundary and get your education and see how good you are without any intervening ' soap opera' variables. You know Jesse in the bible was David's father and who also devalued David. He threw out David's job offers but promised in his vanity to have a son tall enough in his imagination to be a traffic ticket cop in 20 years. You could send job offers to an ill father hoping that he would show the love of a good father and confirm in that presumption that he is the father but we know there are good and bad fathers in this world who would beat their good sons to death or just and then try to kill the neighbor's son also.

Anyone as old as your mother is your mother and anyone as old as your grandmother is your grandmother. You need to have boundaries. Your boss' wife is the boss' wife. Your female boss is your boss and like a mother figure. Keep it that way. Any lecturer, even if she is only five years older, is your teacher. Respect the boundary and get your education and see how good you are without any intervening ' soap opera' variables. You know Jesse in the bible was David's father and who also devalued David. He threw out David's job offers but promised in his vanity to have a son tall enough in his imagination to be a traffic ticket cop in 20 years. You could send job offers to an ill father hoping that he would show the love of a good father and confirm in that presumption that he is the father but we know there are good and bad fathers in this world who would beat their good sons to death or just and then try to kill the neighbor's son also.